In the childhood story The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams Bianco, the Rabbit, new to the nursery, sits at the feet of the Skin Horse, a longtime companion and friend of the young boy. With a strong desire to make sense of his new world and role, the Rabbit seeks the advice of a wise mentor—a toy with experience, wisdom, and insight. The Rabbit asks,
“What is REAL?” The Skin Horse ponders for a moment and responds, “It’s a thing that happens to you.” “You become.”
We had similar moments on our road to becoming teachers...